Heal Then Build

Our people must learn to devote themselves to doing what is good, in order to provide for urgent needs and not live unproductive lives. Titus 3:16

After hard work we rest. We recoup from long hours of physical labor, managerial matters (including raising our offspring) and mental and emotional problem-solving. We rest, but we don’t stay there.

There comes a time to get back up and with renewed vigor, offer our gifts in service to our jobs, families and to people who need us. We go through a cycle everyday of healing and building.

If we are to learn to devote ourselves to doing (building up) what is good, what does that mean?

Today’s verse speaks of urgent needs and refusing to live unproductive lives. Staying in a perpetual state of repose and leaving all the work to others, I would say, is definitely unproductive.

Yet, productive means fruitful, creative, visionary and even influential. We narrow down the problems we face and hope that our attempts to solve them through various means and methods proves to be rewarded with success. The house needs a repair, the child has a behavioral problem or the deadline for our team to fix the company’s computer issues is drawing near. A marriage is failing. The grandmother needs more care than she can handle on her own.

All these events consume our time and work ethic. Work is a good thing. It requires more from us, at times, than we can give, stretching us to grow. Work molds us into better human beings. Work moves us to lean on God for strength and help. When the work is done, there is a sense of accomplishment.

However, the best definition of productivity, to me, is an achievement of our goals to meet the needs of people around us and to benefit them in some way, especially those who are in urgent circumstances. To help them, requires from us, our time, compassion and focus. Sometimes missing a good night’s sleep or missing out on what we would rather be doing is our calling for the moment. Then God abundantly provides the rest we need when the time comes.

Prayer is an example of productive, hard work. We fall on our knees in prayer at the promptings of the Father whenever His focus for us is interceding on other’s behalf.

Lord, open our eyes to the needs of those around us. Help us to devote ourselves to doing good and building up others. Urgency is prevalent in our days. Lead us to those circumstances that are right for us to pursue. Give us wisdom with rest and with work. In Jesus name, Amen.

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Luke 6: 24-26 “But woe to you who are rich, for you have already received your comfort. Woe to you who are well fed now, for you will go hungry. Woe to you who laugh now, for you will mourn and weep. Woe to you when everyone speaks well of you.”

These powerful words fall within a group of verses similar to the sermon on the mount reflections in Matthew. Luke somewhat shortened his account of what Jesus spoke that day.

Jesus rejoices with the poor, hungry and sad, as well as those who are insulted because of His name (probably the majority of his listeners). He said they should even leap for joy in their terrible situations because their future great reward was in Heaven. He then proceeded to heavily grieve in compassion for those whose comfort and greed were found in wealth rather than in setting their gaze on the Father. Those people were not to be envied but pitied! Those people regarded themselves as having everything they felt was essential for a good life and did not sense their need for God.

Jesus may have been speaking directly to the affluent Pharisees of His day who consistently contended with Him. The influential, highly religious Pharisees wanted to be seen as having it ‘all together.’ In a sense, they sought after the substantial attention from others and the successful applause from the crowds instead of seeking the suffering Christ, His joyous approval and a life of humble simplicity.

In a classic example of today’s verse, Luke 16:19-31, Jesus told a story of a poor man, Lazarus, who longed to eat the crumbs that fell from the table of a man who lived in luxury. Both men died. In the afterlife, the poor man found comfort, whereas the man who had hoarded his wealth to himself was “in anguish.”

In all these things, I’ve tried to wrap my brain around the reason why Jesus expressed such “woe” to those full of wealth, food and laughter (things that in and of themselves are not wrong). The words, “for you have already received your comfort (as in the story of the rich and poor man)” struck my heart to its core. Jesus literally felt sorry for those who were in a perpetual state of self-dependence (the very goal most people try to attain their whole lives) WHY?

Note that not every poor person is blessed, for they, out of bitterness, may not put their hope in Christ, and not every rich person is to be pitied, for they may be generous and dependent on the Lord in wholehearted devotion and service (laying down their lives for others). Some people have a knack for making money, for providing sumptuous meals and bringing laughter to others as a gift.

Everything we receive from God’s hand can be shared with those around us. We can be God’s vessels of comfort to those who are poor and needy and sad.

Imagine a privileged man (who knows not the One who gave him his riches). He is self-sufficient within his possessions. He has everything he wants, so why need God and why give to His people? Why not hoard it all to himself?

Yet, from a spiritual standpoint, possessions are only temporary substitutes for what the heart eternally seeks in the Father. Earthly possessions can be distinguished by a personal perception of financial power and advantage over others, whereas God and His spiritual blessings are intangible. The Lord appears to be slow, at times, in the furnishing of our physical needs (giving us a chance to have increased faith in times of discomfort or loss).

Riches furnish the object of one’s wants, when one wants them, whereas those who turn to God for their physical needs and wants may be left in uncertainty (needing a severe steadfastness in Christ to ride the waves of patience in the waiting). The rich find security in earthbound things, whereas those devoted to the Lord find security only in Him. The rich spend their energy and time on the cares of this world and not on the real wealth of all Jesus has for us. Their trust is in their wealth: the truest poverty of all. They don’t know how poor, hungry and sad they really are, perhaps until tragedy strikes. Then, how might all the possessions in the world save them?

Certainly money, food and laughter can be deceptive, luring and distracting, but they are not evil. They are necessary ingredients of life God uses to provide for us, and we share these blessings in our relationships and care of each other.

For example, Jesus was often in the home of Mary, Martha and Lazarus, who appear to have been wealthy: a home and food, enough for Jesus and His disciples to enjoy with laughter and much needed rest. Women of means supported Jesus and His ministry. Jesus attended a joyous wedding celebration, had happy moments with precious children and gave the gift of a better life through physical healing of the sick. The focus on possessions as their ‘all-in-all’ was not a part of their lives, but instead useful in the service of the Almighty God: their true ‘All-in-All,’ their true wealth.

The opposite of rich is poor, and we think of the poor (though not applicable to all) as being humble, hungry, sad (worried) in their lack of things and perhaps not so self-important. Of course, they have more opportunities to lean on the Lord for provision of their meals, clothing and shelter. The poor have more opportunities to see for themselves up close their need for God.

I would like to have eyes to see up close my need for God.

Is it possible when one is surrounded with so much the earth can provide in money, food and laughter to know, really know, one’s greatest need is the Father?

Whatever our station, regardless of how rich or poor, the truth is found not in a person’s luxuriant spirit (focused on the flesh) but in one’s poverty of spirit, acknowledging in humility one’s own weakness (in which God’s strength shines through). These things reflect more about the heart than about physical finances.

Such a person seeks to become a giver of things he’s been given. He pursues becoming a generous listener and not hoarding conversations so much. Such a person, if outgoing, is content to work behind the scenes and not always excessively out front like the Pharisees of Jesus’ time. If he is reserved, he is content, even in weakness, to take the lead when God calls, though he would rather stay in the safety of shadows. Perhaps, such a person when faced with conflict would have a higher goal than greedily winning. Instead, he would desire to guide by his words, actions and handling of the conversation to the true wealth of discovering more about each other in sincere, loving ways!

Dear Father in Heaven, though my outward appearance is one of joy and calm in bearing your name, deep in my soul, I am in a constant state of poverty, hunger and mourning because this world is not my home, and I long for my true dwelling with you. Life’s greatest wisdom will never be found left to my own devices. You are my wisdom, fullness and satisfaction. You are the answer to my deepest desires and needs. In times of waiting for your response to my prayers, teach me to worship and praise you. In times of feast and happiness that come from your hand, help me to leap for joy in your goodness and clear provision, taking no glory unto myself and sharing my lot with those less fortunate. In Jesus name, Amen.

Running the Race of Joy (Rejoice! Part 2)

And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Heb 12:1-2

Discovering a vast amount of treasures in the study of the word rejoice, I will share more of what I’ve been learning this week. The overwhelming wealth of understanding never seems to stop.

For example, have you ever paused long enough in the morning to go out and view it’s birth? Have you taken the time to listen to the symphony of beautiful song surrounding you and truly gazing at the sky in all its glory?

It’s a new day!” the birds cry out.

It is a new page in the book of your life. What will you do with each precious moment? Start by rejoicing in the Creator of this day.

More and more, I am seeing a connection between rejoicing in the Lord and putting my trust in Him. The birds do! Matthew 6:26. I rejoice in His promise to care for me. I rejoice in His goodness and love, His plan and purpose and even His discipline. When I am hurt, sad or cross it helps to know why I can rejoice always. And God apparently has given me everything I need to carry out this command.

I’ve also noticed that the times I LACK joy are typically times I am trying to control a situation or a person.

Let me run their lives and then I’ll feel better, then I can rejoice,” I say to myself.

Generally, controlling others only makes me incredibly uptight, demanding more from them when they comply and angry when they don’t. That’s way too much joy power to give others!

Furthermore, when other’s around me lack joy, for whatever reason, it’s a steep climb to choose joy for myself.

I am learning that I can still absorb joy from God (always and forever), but in the presence of a joyless person, my glad heart doesn’t need to be arrogant: ‘hey, look at me’.

I’m happy, you’re not. I’m better than you.”

No! Joy must carry with it an energy of compassion, love, service, listening and inwardly praying for those who are in a bad place. The process of rejoicing always when suffering is our place of residence, takes time and spiritual and mental work (at least this is my experience).

In fact, when the Bible talks about rejoicing, it can be, a lot of times, during seasons of tremendous trials and pain such as Jesus experienced in today’s passage. The cross was not a place of laughter and smiles. It was a place of affliction and cries for help.

Yet, Jesus saw into the future what this horrible but necessary event would bring, and it brought Him great joy to lay down His life for a lost world. We, too, though not always knowing what our suffering is about, can at the very least, acknowledge that God does know, and we can entrust our lives to Him, even in the pain.

Trials can actually become a reminder of God IN the trial – my reminder to rejoice in Him. In all things of my life, I want to find Him, and once I have found Him, it is my greatest reason to rejoice.

The truth is, I typically don’t think about having to rejoice when I’m in the good times. I automatically feel happy. It is in the unhappy times that I must think through what it means to rejoice. And this joy takes me to a more profound state of mind then does happiness.

If I were to take hold of my thoughts during the happy moments of life and remember that the reason for my bliss is only temporary, I might, even then, choose to go to the depths of true joy found only in the Father; for it is not from this earth that we receive the truest blessings.

The last point I am currently attempting to take deep into my heart is the knowledge that rejoicing is the opposite of taking offense. A super sensitive person is constantly angry or hurt about what others say or do. There doesn’t seem to be an actual heart-grasp of love, forgiveness and grace. Reoccurring offensiveness block our way to joy.

Father, open up the recesses of my soul to experience rejoicing always. As I do this, give me eyes to see the pain surrounding the lives of people I meet. Let me rejoice in the equipping you give me to show compassion, love and service. When it is my turn to suffer, open my eyes to see how you are directing others to help me make it through another day. Guide us all to a community to share our joys and sorrows. Thank you for the joy of your provision of friends and loved ones in our time of need. When all seems lost, help us to remember the joy of Heaven that lay before us (because Jesus made a way) and know that this is a reason to always rejoice. In Jesus name, Amen.

PEACE in These Times of Trouble

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. John 14:27

And then there is The Passion Translation:

“I leave the gift of peace with you—my peace. Not the kind of fragile peace given by the world, but my perfect peace. Don’t yield to fear or be troubled in your hearts—instead, be courageous!”

My theme this week has been PEACE.

What is peace: lack of tension or having superior knowledge, good feelings or good circumstances?

Perhaps that’s the way the world would define it.

Yet, what the world has to offer is counterfeit, temporary, fake and even hypocritical peace, peace that offers me hollow promises and glittery, sparkling attractions that lure me to believe it’s assurances are full of goodness. What the world offers is a mirage, a lie trying to grab my allegiance and loyalty, when my energy and time belong only to the Father.

What God offers may seem, at times, harsh, cruel, ridiculous, scary, narrow, painful and difficult. But truly I must have eyes to see the peaceful treasures beyond what my senses feel.

In our troubling times, the current circumstances spread around the opposite of peace: panic, fear and worry. It keeps me up late at night with my stomach in knots and in nail-biting moments of chilling anxiety. I buy into that all the time. We all do, especially now in this pandemic. So the peace into which the world invites me simply feels good (More food, please so I can overeat. Give me an alcohol beverage. Help me numb the pain).

Perhaps Christ’s peace goes deeper than these things.

These other things are a distraction from what my higher mind should be dwelling on, which is prayer, worship, adoration, surrender and servanthood.

But I’m bored, weary and tired of the same four walls and of always having to be ‘on.’ And in it all, I must still be nice, sweet, giving and good.

A good reminder is to recognize that true peace comes from an obedient heart. In order to follow my Lord, I must constantly listen to His Spirit who guides me in all things. This is why peace can seem so painful (not peaceful) at first.

My heart must humble itself again and again. My mind is being refined to not always have to be right, better or always having the best answers.

Peace means I give into or accept unchangeable circumstances and not fight them as if I can fix and make all things right. With peace, I take a deep breath and become pleasantly creative. How can I make this day count? How might this moment be remembered forever?

God’s peace acknowledges and notices the blessings all around me, instead of concentrating on the bad stuff.

So are feelings not okay? Sometimes we get scared and maybe depressed at times. Maybe it’s normal in times like these. But peace is still knowing that God IS there and He will pull us through. He will never leave you. He will never leave me!

Peace is not the absence of depression or tears. Peace is a courageous willingness to push through it and praise God in it.

Peace happens when you take His answers of yes or no and still love Him, still honor His name and continue to move forward one step at time, one day at a time.

On Facebook, there for a season, was a page called Praise On Your Porch. They suggested going out on your porch every night to sing the designated song of the day. All over the world, we joined in, singing praises to our God. This didn’t last forever, but it was such a great idea.

How are you bringing peace to your corner of the world?

After the following prayer, I posted one of my favorite songs for you to learn and sing right now.

Lord Jesus, touch us, heal us, bring us answers during this anxious time. But whatever your hand gives, help us to be grateful and obedient to your calling to peace. Give us praising tongues and uplifted hands. Put a song on our lips to glorify your name in all things. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Wait till you hear the chorus of this massive choir! Join in!

You Gave Me Drink

If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you. Proverbs 25:21, 22

Why is this verse in the Bible?

Giving to an enemy honestly seems impossible, demeaning and humiliating. Giving to an enemy feels beyond our abilities. “I just can’t to it!” we say.

So why are we given such difficult tasks? Is this guideline supposed to help the other person (the enemy) and make his life better, or is this a lesson for us?

An enemy is any person who hurts us deeply, who neglects, doesn’t consider or uses us. He doesn’t get our views, or clap and approve our values.

He’s not the kind of enemy one thinks of in war or hostile situations. Where I live, I am blessed to have a safe home and neighborhood. So the only way I can interpret the verse is to say that he is someone who simply isn’t on my side. He is someone who isn’t like me, and I’ve got plenty of those. Well, truth be told, there is no one exactly like me, so I deal with the “enemy” everyday, everywhere I go (if my thoughts take me there).

My choices are limited. I have no way around the fact that I’ll always have people in my life who don’t like or agree with everything I say or do.

I’ve seen situations in which friends are warm with each other when they are in agreement and then everything goes cold when the other expresses a different feeling or view. Yet, I KNOW that they have such potential to change the world together, if only, they would keep the unconditional love intact through the ups and downs of their relationship. They see each other as the enemy, when in reality the true enemy is working hard to separate their friendship on purpose.

What a loss to God’s kingdom!!

Yes, I’ll always have people in my life who think differently than I do. But the only time that makes them an enemy is when ‘I’ let the differences go into my heart and tear at me. In my weakest moments, it happens. I have to work through the struggles deep within.

First, I have to forgive them, though they did no wrong. They simply disagreed with me, I still have to work through forgiveness.

Second, I must look at the bigger picture. Why is the need for their agreement or approval bothering me so much? What is the REAL enemy (the enemy of God) trying to do in my life? Petty, annoying distractions take away from the good I could be doing for others, especially for the very person with whom I’m upset, the very person through whom God desires to do a mighty thing.

Therefore, third, I must figure out a way to give them food and drink (serve them).

Four, this kind of breakthrough is the sort of thing that opens up the heavens to let the power of God into our world. Wonderful, supernatural events occur because we choose to get over ourselves and give to someone with whom we have conflict. (I didn’t say ‘give in.’ We can stand strong in what we believe, but we can find a way to give a cup of cold water without losing our values.)

Sometimes my enemy is ME. I over-exert myself and get weary, and with that comes an avalanche of unwanted, uninvited emotions. I don’t act like me, and I don’t like me in those moments.

I become what I teach others not to be. Irritability comes to the surface and spews it’s ugly contents. So how do I give food and water to the enemy inside? Explain my situation the best way I can to those around me, go to bed, take a break and do something fun, stop the onslaught of the negativity and choose to be kind until I feel like being kind. Kindness is really who I am, just not in the moment.

Naturally, I can’t always find rest and play when I need to. In those times, I must hang on tight to the hand of Jesus and find my rest in Him. I ask Him to overcome the enemy that is within.

A habit of kindness comes in handy at times like this. It’s who people expect me to be and that makes it easier to continue being that even when I don’t feel like it. I joke around and laugh to bring happiness to others and that actually brings happiness to me. Kindness is healing. So are all the other items on the list of good things that come over me when I reach out for the Holy Spirit of God. Eventually, the enemy within dies away and my faith journey continues once again. The habit of serving kindness is a habit to fan into flame throughout my whole life.

Lord, teach me more about loving and serving my enemy. Often times, I am the one who is ‘your‘ enemy. I don’t mean to be, but I wander away, I forget, I fight or I don’t trust your ways for me. Yet, YOU give ME overflowing amounts of drink and you feed me every day in abundance when I least deserve it. You are my greatest example of this verse. Thank you for loving me even though I falter so much in life. Show me how to follow you. In Jesus name, amen.